I've been asked a number of times throughout my career as an escort who my favourite customer has been and I've never been able to answer the question with just one name, because to narrow it down to one gentleman is impossible. Continue reading
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12 types of escorts you will meet
If you intend to have more than just one or two sessions with escorts in your life, then you will probably encounter a wide variety of escort types. There are a plethora of reasons that escorts get into the industry, and they have even more motivations for keeping the career.
Escorts are from different backgrounds and view their careers differently. Synching up your preferences with her type may make your experience much more successful. And, while there are limitless ways to categorize escorts, consider these as some of the most popular types:
- Material girl: The material girl escort is exactly as she sounds. She is highly motivated by money. She associates physical things of value with status and probably carries designer bags, wears imported shoes and flaunts labels whenever she can. This escort will namedrop, when appropriate, and always insists on the best — whatever she thinks it means. From hotel suites to wine, she isn't satisfied unless it's costly and seemingly associated with the rich and famous. She works for tips, high rates and gifts. Her goals are wealth and luxury. Clothing, accessories and jewelry are favorites. She strives to not only own a nice place to live, but it also must be located in the poshest of neighborhoods and be furnished with the most upscale items your money can buy. If you're looking for an escort who knows her way in and out of the wealthy circles, she's probably the one. But, if you want some simple time with an escort who is easy to please with common themes, you may want to keep looking for your match.
- Niche escort: The niche escort provides non-mainstream services or activities that most others will not. She may have some fetishes of her own. She may walk the wild side. Or, she may just be an ordinary woman who has elected to provide opportunities for clients who want something beyond standard encounters. Typically, niche escorts are a lot more open-minded, having seen and heard a lot of requests and non-typical behavior. However, they may have stricter rules and policies than other escorts. Because they perform a role that others do not, they have a monopoly on business, in a way, and can be much sterner with clients for not adhering to their guidelines. They have strong stances about respect, tardiness and scheduling. Their rates may be higher, because the bookings they provide are harder to come by and may cost more to prepare for. If you want a standard girlfriend experience, you shouldn't seek out a niche escort. However, if you want a GFE that turns into sploshing fun, a niche escort might be exactly who you're looking for.
- Rebel: The rebellious escort probably had all of the advantages handed to her, growing up, but chose to seek her own path of excitement. She grew tired of being expected to act or talk in such a boring or "respectful" manner — and, is even more put off by the concept that she should hold her reputation in such esteem and care what others think of her. She wants to be bad. A rebel desires a more crooked route to her life. She enjoys shocking others with her actions or language. And, even more, she revels in the idea that her family is appalled at her lifestyle. On the surface, she is capable of acting refined and well behaved. But, she enjoys getting down and nasty, talking dirty and being kinky. Clients who are looking for a good girl turned bad escort will find exactly who they are looking for with a rebel escort. But, if you're mild-mannered or wish her to have more manners or care what you think, you should steer clear of this one.
- Hard-working, blue collar escort: This kind of an escort is likely very grounded and has a lot of common sense. Something sparked in her life that caused her desire more. Maybe she wants a better life for her children. Or, she just wants to move up, herself. She learned early on that she could build something beneficial and profitable by monetizing her good looks. She may be a former beauty queen or a Hooter's waitress who realized that crowns and hot wings were for the other girls. She works hard for what she has, and she believes in providing good customer service and amazing client experiences through encounters. She won't take any nonsense, but she's good-hearted and willing to entertain all reasonable ideas for bookings. If you're trying to find an escort who will treat you well without a lot of hype or games, this escort may be the one for you.
- Convert: She has moved up from her previous career as a prostitute to an escort. However, because she probably started on the streets, her mentality is a bit more ghetto. She is a little rough around the edges and may ask a LOT of questions about your identity, because she's naturally a little suspicious of all clients. She's extra cautious with her money and belongings and is ever aware (possibly paranoid) that the authorities could be watching. She may or may not be a clock watcher and is extremely concerned about the services provided, but not as much about the experience. While many converts are EXCELLENT escorts, some may lack the finesse that other high-end escorts do, as they were brought up in a different style of adult entertainment. She's all about how she's going to make her income and what her services are worth, so do NOT try to negotiate rates with her. Additionally, she is tough… so, don't try to razz her. She is usually on the defensive and will cut you down in nothing flat. BUT — a convert is a great escort when you are pressed for time and care more about rolling in the hay than a sexy massage.
- Outsider: Some women always wanted to run in the elite social circles, but were unable to break through because of social barriers. They weren't wealthy enough or had other restrictions that somehow prevented them from ever fitting in the way they wanted to. But, as an escort, they get to join a class of society that they were unable to be a part of. She learned she could buy into the "in club" with her good looks, charm and skill set. And, once she found a few clients in those circles, she was a shoe-in. She will use her influence and discretion to ensure she has a place from now on. Clients who want an escort who realizes the subtle nuances required to "fit in" or want to associate with someone who knows how to "fake it 'til you make it" will be happy with an outsider escort. Additionally, she has no friends or family in the circles you run in, except for associates through the industry, other clients and individuals she has fooled to get by with — so, she's a sure bet to keep your trysts secret.
- Smart cookie: The smart cookie is just that: very intelligent. She is probably quite educated and has the abilities to establish an outstanding career in an industry of her choice. However, she saw the writing on the wall. She realized early on that there was a smarter way to make money than giving all of her time away to a corporation. From wanting the flexibility of her own schedule and not having to answer to a "boss", this smart escort is making use of her talents and education to do great things for herself. She's probably very business savvy and is a whiz at marketing. She is totally serious about her bottom line and knows what she has to do to make money. However, she may be inexperienced with her actual skills as an escort. For many clients, this isn't a problem. As long as her personality and intelligence shines through, most clients find it appealing that she may be more innocent intimately than other escorts. She is a great match for clients who are equally intelligent and appreciate good conversation and witty banter.
- Accidental escort: Some escorts really don't intend to join the industry – at least not for more than just a booking or two. It's happened more than once where a young woman is propositioned with an opportunity that will introduce her into the career. Perhaps, an acquaintance suggests that she spend the night with him for a certain "reward". Or, she may find herself in a financial hole and resound herself to working as an escort, just to crawl out of a difficult situation. But, once she has experienced the income potential and enjoyed a nice client or two, it's challenging to step away from the job. Being an escort offers autonomy, great money and the opportunity to create your own business. So, some escorts didn't fully intend to become providers; they just kind of fell into it. The benefits of these escorts are that they are not so seasoned in the field that their attitudes are tainted, nor are they long-term escorts who have been so far around the block they are worn out. Most of these escorts have a huge appreciation for what their position offers them, and they are willing to be the best that they can be for clients.
- Part-timer: Many escorts just do the gigs for extra income. They are part-time escorts and maintain a more "traditional" job elsewhere. They only take on a few clients weekly/monthly, and the income they make is usually extra, either to fill in the gaps where their full-time job doesn't or to pay for extras their family needs. They work only on the weekends, evenings or specifically on other days they have off. Their availability is limited, both for booking times and communication. As a client, you are going to have to be flexible — or your schedule must fit with theirs. There will be no exceptions, resulting in it being difficult to succeed with a booking. You may need to schedule considerably ahead of time to ensure an encounter. And, if you score a spot on her client list, you should probably secure a regular spot on her calendar if you hope to see her frequently.
- Seductress: Some escorts started out as the "other woman". They may have been seeing married men since they were old enough to date and learned what it took to uphold a discreet lifestyle. After being passed over for the "wife" several times, they may have decided that they can actually make a career out of being the seductress in a relationship. These escorts are typically irresistible. They have an allure about them that will make even the most loyal man consider straying. They know how to draw a client out and give him a special encounter, unlike anything he experiences with his wife or partner. However, this escort is entirely aware that while there are no strings attached, she will maintain a hold on her clients through her power over them. She banks on that to bring them back for more — giving and taking as it pleases her. Actually, some escorts who are seductresses sometimes see it as a game. She may play with your emotions and tease you along the way. If nothing else, it gets a client's motor revving and is always exciting.
- Sugar baby: The kept woman, sometimes called a sugar baby, often becomes an escort after she discovers that her power over a man can get her many material possessions, including room and board. It's definitely an incentive to any woman to be supplied with money to live on, a place to live and other nice "bonuses". Sugar babies are usually taken in by older, wealthy gentlemen who want to keep fresh, young women all to themselves, while still maintaining their "respectable" lives in the eyes of society. But, many sugar babies decide that if they can do it for one guy, they can perform the same services for several clients. Becoming an escort is just a natural step for many sugar babies — especially if the relationship fails or comes to an end. Advantages of a sugar baby are that they are there whenever you need/want them… as long as you keep supplying the money.
- Entrepreneur: The entrepreneurial escort is working toward an overall goal of having her own business. Whether she is striving to own her own escort agency or wants to open another type of business, her proceeds will go toward her efforts for her endeavor. Her bottom line is essential to her and she is incredibly focused on her future. She may ask for advice or opinions along the way, especially from clients who are successful business owners or financial wizards. She has established benchmarks and accomplishments she needs to conquer as she works her way up. She is no slouch and will work hard for what she wants — including giving you a great encounter. But have no doubt: she will hope she can utilize your connections when the time comes to open her new venture.
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How to convince an escort to take you on as a customer?
Depending on where you are in life, you may run into situations where an escort is hesitant to take you on as a client. If you're trying to get on the client list with an elite escort, you have to prove yourself in a variety of ways. She's an elite escort for a reason. She is extremely selective about the clients she accepts, due to the level of service she provides and her reputation for excellence in the industry. If she didn't maintain an exclusive VIP client list, demand for her time might not be nearly as sought after. Realize that you may have to jump through some hoops and prove yourself before she schedules that first booking with you.
There are some ways that you may be able to expedite an escort's acceptance of your addition to her client list. Try these tips:
- Stress your elite status. Unless you're a celebrity with instant name recognition, you may need to inform your escort that you are in the elite club, too, so to speak. Drop hints about having a yacht, vacation home in a VIP location, or other things that will make you stand out as a fellow upscale citizen. Name dropping is pretty gauche, so stay away from that. And, don't talk about your belongings or status in such a way that you're bragging. Allude to your status in normal conversation. For instance, you can mention that your family just flew to the Alps in your private jet for a vacation, so you have time free for an encounter. If hinting around about your status doesn't work for you, simply lay it out on the line for her. Give her a rundown — much like a resume — about why you think you qualify under her criteria to be a client.
- Be open about your finances. An upscale, elite escort only associates with the wealthiest of clients who can pay her fees, repeatedly. She isn't looking for a client who has to save up cash each time he makes a booking. She may ask you direct questions about your income, assets, etc. that other escorts do not. She is not trying to be nosey or invasive. She simply needs to get down to the nitty gritty about whether you can afford her services. Elite escorts don't mess around with poor clients or those who are on the brink of financial ruin or disaster. She wants to make sure that you are a good addition to her client list and will continue to be in the future, as long as the two of you hit it off. She makes decisions based on long-term effects. If she foresees that your abilities to be a regular client are limited, she will likely insist that you find an escort more within your financial means.
- Maintain a good reputation. While many upscale escorts are consumed with the financial end of their business as they select clients, others are deeply concerned about the integrity and personal character of those they spend time with. Not only are they seeking clients who are professionally successful, but they want the individuals they are companions to to be kind, generous and upstanding individuals. Even if you don't go out of your way to help old ladies cross the street, it's essential to keep an overall positive reputation that indicates you are a good person. Volunteer with worthy organizations, donate to charities close to your heart and do your best to be an ethical business person. Word gets around when a leader is unkind, ungiving or just plain ruthless in his actions. Don't give an escort reason to refuse you due to being a jerk in your real life.
- Exhibit transparency about your celebrity status. Many famous (or infamous) individuals believe that they must keep their popular status a secret until meeting up in person. Dropping suggestions about who you are or giving an escort a riddle to solve to determine your true identity is useless. She will become frustrated and drop communication with you immediately. Be upfront and honest about who are, how much security you bring along with you and any other requests you have as you travel to see her, if she's hosting at an incall. If you expect her to come for an outcall, give her the down low about the security she will observe at the entrance to your property, any paparazzi concerns as she arrives and anything else she should know about a meeting with you. Hiding your celebrity status puts both of you at a disadvantage to have a good time. And, it may deter an escort from accepting your addition to her client list.
- Propose fun dates. An elite escort is accustomed to doing fascinating things with clients. Luxury vacations, resort visits and VIP events are standard fare for escorts who have exclusive client lists of wealthy CEOs. Before attempting to schedule an encounter with an elite escort, find out the kinds of things she considers for bookings. Staying within her parameters, brainstorm ideas that might intrigue her enough that she will want to include you in her upcoming schedule for the sheer delight of your proposed activity. If you're on the brink of being cut, your creativity may pull you through as a contender for a permanent client list spot. Keep in mind that your creativity may cost you. Fun activities often have a price tag attached to them, but your time with your escort will be worth it. Once you've established yourself with your escort, every booking in the future won't have to be exceptionally unique. But, you should still have a few tricks up your sleeve for another adventure later.
- Make her feel special for something other than her elite status. Of course, your escort is used to being told that she's beautiful or the subject of a man's fantasies. She's a gorgeous, upscale escort who is coveted by many and held by only a few. Her elite status, alone, makes her special to many potential suitors. Find other things about her that make you want to spend time with her. Focus on her interests. Or, her background. Or, her attitude. There must be something other than her appearance and elite status that drew you to her in the first place. Identify those factors and use them to woo her. Emphasize that you're attracted to her for so much more than just her exclusivity. Clients who want to grab on to her for a trophy are not flattering and are a dime a dozen. She wants to know that there is more to your attraction than that.
- Exhibit gallantry. Even though the vast majority of society appears to feel that being a gentleman is outdated, your escort will probably find it charming. Demonstrate courtesy, politeness and gentleness in your demeanor as you communicate with her. It's difficult to deny a true gentleman's appeal when he's slathering on the compliments. Do your best to show patience, not pushing your escort to make a hasty decision. Respect her choices. When you communicate with her, be smooth and eloquent. Use a well-rounded vocabulary and avoid profanity at all costs. By being the exception to the norm, your escort will find you to be a refreshing alternative to many of her crasser clients. You will also stand out among her other suitors, which will give you a better chance of being chosen for an open client list spot.
- Always follow her rules. Many elite escorts indicate how, when and in what manner they like to be addressed and contacted. Do not, under any circumstances, try to sneak past these preferences and get a message to her in another way. An elite escort establishes simple guidelines like these to ensure that potential clients can follow directions. Her parameters may provide discretion for both you and her and are important to be followed to a "T." It also helps her weed out prospective clients who aren't willing to take her lead in the very beginning. She will know that if they can't follow directions in the beginning, they will be boundary pushers throughout the rest of the relationship. Pay attention to her rules and fight off the urge to do things your way.
- Provide good references. It's unlikely that this is the first time you've ever been with an escort. Most individuals who end up being members of an elite escort's client list are avid fans of the industry. Many high-end providers are familiar with one another in an area or major geographical region. If you've been a loyal client of another escort or two, ask if they would be willing to be a positive reference for you. Being able to prove that you've been a reliable, discreet and worthy client in the past may speak volumes for you as a potential suitor to an elite escort. Be sure, though, that your references will say nice things about you. If you're leaving them to move on to a new escort, they may harbor animosity. Or, if you're leaving the relationship on bad terms, their praise for you may be extremely limited. Know ahead of time what your references will say about you before you list them as people who can speak to your quality as a client.
- Be reliable. There is no room in the escort industry for unreliable clients. Providers depend on their clients to follow through with what they say, the rates they promise and the times/dates they schedule. If you have a habit of being a no-show or not living up to expectations, don't think that you're going to even get an elite escort to bat an eyelash at you. As you build up to your eventual attempt to get on an exclusive escort's client list, do your best to follow through on what you say you will with other escorts. Demonstrate that you are punctual, consistent and always carry through on agreements. Escorts have to be able to depend on their clients, especially when their client lists are so limited. An elite escort can't make an income if her clients aren't going to follow through on their appointments.
- Know that you must be discreet. In fact, you must make stronger efforts at discretion than you've ever made with past escorts. An elite provider does not allow for slip-ups or clients who can't arrive to her incall in a quiet manner. She can't accept a client who brags to his co-workers or golf buddies about his escapades with her. She maintains an exclusive business based on secrecy. She doesn't want her services to be the small talk at the bar or on poker night. What she provides is worth so much more than that, and if you cannot keep the secret about your relationship with her, you won't be on her client list very long. As you attempt to gain your escort's trust, be cautious about name-dropping (which demonstrates your lack of discretion), avoid having conversations with her in obviously public places and allow her to know that you're taking efforts to hide your communications with her on your laptop, phone, tablet, etc.
- Live an elite lifestyle. While, it's certainly ok for you to tell your escort about your lifestyle, it's even better if it's visible to her by the way in which you live. If you're a local community leader, it's possible that your standard way of living is common knowledge. Everyone may know that you drive a luxury sports car or that you live in a mansion. Doing the things you normally do, in such a way that a middle-class citizen couldn't fathom how you spend money, may earn you a golden ticket with an escort. She will realize that you are accustomed to laying down some serious cash for the best things in life. She also knows that you only settle for the top quality in your life. You and she will make a great fit, simply by the way in which you go about your life and interests.
- Let her know you are interested in becoming a regular. Many elite escorts are pestered by clients who want that "once in a lifetime" experience of being with a luxury provider. They don't really want to be bothered by clients who don't plan on becoming a regular on their schedule. It's a lot of work for something that doesn't promise future rewards. An escort isn't in the business to grant wishes or make dreams come true. (Even though she does, in many ways.) She's attempting to run a business and earn an income that is far superior to other jobs she might acquire in another lifestyle. She doesn't have time for clients who aren't serious about pursuing a long-term escort/client relationship that includes future bookings.
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