While working as an escort certainly isn't thought of as a conventional job, it does count as valid work experience and requires certain skills which may be valuable in other areas of life or even other lines of work as well. Continue reading
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How to work as an escort without shame or fear of persecution
It seems to me like most escorts are very private about what they do. I can understand why, it's not like society is exactly kind to those in the sex trade or anything. I have always wondered why that is, but it remains a mystery. From my own observations, it seems like sex workers are only worthy of kindness from society if they are a victim of human trafficking, which must mean they need help of some kind. Continue reading
Is male escorting a job, a career, or a path to freedom?
It can be said that men, in general, are fixated on their careers. Luckily, the gender gap has been narrowing for quite some time, but men are still number one when it comes to motivation by career advancement alone. To many grown-up boys, having the best well-paying job, driving the finest car and screwing a boatload of hotties are usually the most desirable signs that they've made it in life. Still, to many others this is not exactly what they are shooting for. Could escorting be a viable option for both camps? Continue reading
Lessons I've learned as a male escort for men
Over the years an escort can certainly develop thick skin. It's pretty much a requirement of the job and is something we all either try to pretend we don't have or put on airs that we do. Still, the fact remain our work is both fun and dangerous and it's up to us to remain as in control of our lives and the situation as best as possible. Continue reading
How to get a man off quickly: Male escort perspective
As a male escort, there are a number of techniques one can use to get a guy off faster. Sometimes, this is not the most logical course of action to take when time is the product being bought and sold, but when it comes to rendering sexual services – time may very well be of the essence and therefore – knowing how to get to the point when it counts is not only advisable but highly beneficial. Continue reading
How to approach a younger man as a male escort
In my last article, I explained how to approach an older man as a male escort. I did this by discussing places to meet older clients and ways to advance them from start to finish in these particular environments. In this article, I will expose the differences and similarities in both age groups, while maintaining a special focus on how to pick up and seal the deal with younger clientele. Continue reading
How to approach an older man as a male escort
An escort knows the majority of his clientele will likely be older than he is. There is just a certain level of understanding that youth is a very prized and alluring attribute to possess; with it the world is often your oyster. From a man's perspective, virility and power are the two characteristics that comprise the majority of what gay men consider attractive, and therefore – in our business – highly marketable. Continue reading
What do guys want – and get – from male escorts?
My escort name was Jake. If I wanted to know more about you, I'd tell you it was Jacob, off the bat. You can tell a lot from someone by the way they respond to a person's name. Would they make fun of it, would they test it, or would they think it's cute? Does it remind them of someone from their past and is that good or bad? After all, we're in the business of pleasure and it's bad for business to choose a name that your client may have negative associations with. Continue reading
Why do men hire male escorts?
Wouldn't it be great if all men were the same? It sure would make an escort's job a whole lot easier. I mean, we all think we know who people are simply by what they show us, or demonstrate in any given situation, but do we ever really know someone? Can we ever fully predict what people will want from us before they ask for it? Continue reading
First time with an escort: A male-to-male perspective
What do you do with a client who's never been to an escort, or who might still be in the closet and looking for answers? The most important thing to remember is you are not a licensed clinician, so stay away from psychoanalyzing. But, if a client comes to you not knowing what to expect, consider what your first time was like, and be cognizant of what you'd want from a first time experience with an escort. Continue reading